She thinks I am spoiling her.

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I am not.  I am merely making sure she has what she needs for an easier life, and enough for basic living.  She is losing weight, so needs a few things.  She can't find some things.  And probably needs more shoes than she needed in the nursing home, and better shoes.

She needs things to make mobility easier.  As well, as I bring her more toward keto/carnivore, I am buying foods to help.  If she wants to make things for herself, up to a point, okay.  But, say, a whole normal cake?  No, it would be too tempting.  Or make it and toss three quarters of it.  OR... make a keto cake.  If even then I won't eat much.  Don't trust those.  But better than a sugar and seed oil cake.

As well, for now, more veggies and such.  Mostly for her.  Next month, other than meat, eggs, and dairy, she will have to buy else.  Veggies, mostly.  Candy and sweets (but as I told her in limited amounts or I'll toss if tempted).

Plus, she is buying some of what she needs and wants too.  Rent, she paid, and another double that, has been spent on her this month.  Just by me.  True.  I don't think she understood her needs, or how expensive the world got.  This is not spoiling.  It is helping to get her set up for her age and condition in a new place.

She does a lot of work.  Definitely adding a woman's touch to the place.  I don't begrudge helping her live better and easier.  That isn't spoiling.  It will taper, a bit.  Though... having a woman in the house is expensive.  They... go theough supplies, have needs and wants, and just... spend, want, need, and do... things.  But, it will be more sharply tapering, and she brings money in two ways, so... it'll even out in time.

Later.