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After being out with me, especially recently, last night mother said I shouldn't aim for a thirty year old woman. I just chortled. It isn't as much a choice as the limits of what I would and could use and tolerate.
Pretty forty year old women? Pretty youngish women with tattoos, piercings, and else? Pretty bigger younger women? Maybe. Simply isn't going to happen. I am not interested. They know it, I know it.
It isn't about... what she thinks. Just that a thirty five year old woman is too old, bitter. Can't have children. Heck, a thirty year old woman is risky. Much younger and I'm dealing with a feminine imbicile. Already emotional trainwrecks, but with youth adding to it. No thank you. And, as mentioned anyway, probably not "American". At this point, we would have absolutely nothing in common.
Mother is on their side. Which is something she should understand. Politically and socially, from how each of us approaches everything from politics, to economics, to tradition, and else, we are not close to being allied. Her sentiment regarding "American" women doesn't come close to flying with me. Equal? Then get used to being solo. Looking out for yourself. And all such.
How is that working out for them? *grins* I'm not the one even close to in need, for anything. Not even interested, so temptation isn't a concern. I wish it weren't so. But nothing I have seen for several decades or so has made me think about even trying. Well, who didn't end up being married or otherwise not available.
Have to laugh. No, mother. They won't do. Not even a negotiation, debate, thought. Look, I hope they find a guy. And it works out. I'm not seeing it, for most of them. Certainly not with me. Keep that day job, the chin(s) up, and that equality notion. Your good. Remember, you need a man like a fish needs a bicycle!
It is good to be free, and pretty much bullet-proof. I want, don't need. Really do want, can walk away from any woman who won't do. Have, in and out of relationships.
*rictus grin*
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