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A temporary fix. But needed. Before a talk. As well, arranging the one-way discussion. No gas lighting or explaining back allowed. A simple conveyance of understandings with no wiggle room. Any attempts at such will lead to am exit. A final parting of ways.
A series of statements, declaring what could be, is, happening that are problems. The solutions. And what will happen, in very short order, if the behavior isn't absolutely changed. As well, I will suggest, since I doubt she has the willpower to behave, that she begin her search for a new place.
Assisted living, a nursing home, a little apartment on her own. And, no, I won't hire her for occasional cleaning. First, I can't trust her not to steal, allow others in to steal, not to use my devices... break things, or work the hours she would bill. It would be like hiring a grasshopper to clean your grainery. Just no.
If she wants socialism, or communism, move to China, Cuba, or California, Illinois, or New York City. That shit won't fly here.
If she ends up going, I'll clear, clean, and sell the place. Then head to South East Asia, to start. Then maybe to South America... with very little in the way of kit to be stolen. Living out of a suitcase or backpack and as inexpensively as possible. If I find a woman on the way, she'll have to learn to live light and free too. Or be left to her ways somewhere along the way. Definitely won't live near her family. They'll eat and steal you blind, while she gaslights you about. Women are women no matter where you go.
Today. Tomorrow. The day after. As soon as I am able to talk without going nuclear, we will talk. Later.
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